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I am married to the best woman in the world and she's way out of my league. Way to go, me. I love being the father of our little boy, Romey. We were blessed with him on July 8, 2010. My daughter, Paisley Joy, brings me so much joy. She joined our family on July 23, 2012. We also have a dog, Sasha, our Shiba Pug. I wear many hats as a music pastor while Courtney works as a music teacher in Kettering. Life is Good!!

Monday, November 23, 2009

Thanks Living

That's the theme of this week, right?? I was thinking about this week a lot. We all have our own Thanksgiving traditions. Maybe you sit around your table and tell everyone what you are thankful for. Maybe you spend the whole month of November focusing on what you're thankful for each day. Maybe you get together with family and reconnect. Maybe you're more concerned with the fact that not only are the Lions playing this year, so are the Raiders!! What's the NFL going to do next?? :):) Obviously, you can see where my head is. :) Regardless of tradition, this is a special time of year.

Courtney and I were able to reconnect with my family yesterday. And, in typical Nicholl fashion, we met at Ruby Tuesday's for a quick lunch. It was quick because I was late and I had to leave early. This is also very typical. While I hate to be late, so many things happen out of my control that I can't always help it. Anyway, our short time together was wonderful. Not everyone was able to make it, but it was still a good time together. It's important for us to get together and talk... to let each other into our lives. Life is to short to go through it alone. So, we get together to show how much we love each other. That was Thanksgiving #1. Thanksgiving #2 will be on Thursday with Courtney's family. That will be a special time as well. We have not been together as a family since last January. Courtney's grandma and Scott, Courtney's brother-in-law, won't be with us. However, it's going to be a great time.

But, is this what Thanksgiving is all about? Is it about family, and food, and quality time, and fun, and you name it...?? Yes, absolutely. So, why do we only worry about taking care of this stuff when it's a holiday?? Why do we let a calendar year dictate how we show love and affection to our family and friends?? There are a lot of excuses that answer this. But that's just it, they are excuses. We are busy. We all have plenty of stuff that fills our plates. We all have schedules that are not our own. That makes this difficult, but not impossible. We need to live lives that reek of thankfulness. Everyone that we encounter should be blown away by our thankful personalities. We've been given so much. We have no reason to keep it to ourselves.

-Just my thoughts...

2 comments:

  1. Yesterday was great even if the time was short! I love having my kids around the table. You make life so worthwhile! Love you, guys!

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  2. Being together is wonderful. For me, all of you make each day Thanksgiving, Christmas, and father's day! Thanks for being my son.

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